Was at my doctor's today. I finally told him all about B.'s departure two years ago. Hadn't been collected enough to do that until now. (Hadn't resolved it.) He said he'd also had a BF with an illegal prescription-drug use and had to break it off (basically over all the dishonesty -- same here, as I confronted B. about his "secret life").
Was glad to get that off my chest with him and have some sympathy. (I'd asked him whether he had an extra five minutes to talk more at length about it and he said yes.)
Checked out fine vis-a-vis my lab tests.